Finding Peace between You and Your Dog

October 24, 20252 min read

Finding Peace between You and Your Dog

 A woman sits on a log outdoors, accompanied by two dogs, enjoying a peaceful moment in nature.


I founded The Learning Dog Behavior & Enrichment Services with one purpose in mind—helping people and dogs live great lives together. When I started training as a volunteer and early in my professional days, I really believed that training was the key. It turns out that I was wrong. Training is only one piece of a larger picture.

As I looked at the dogs residing in my home – family pets and fosters- I kept returning to one thing: the dogs who’d been with me the longest would often do what I needed them to, even without formal training. And sometimes, the dogs who had training struggled the most. Why? My curiosity, the wanting to know “why,” pushed me to learn more, to discover why.

Ongoing professional development keeps me current about best practices in animal welfare and my understanding of humane training methods. I’ve earned a variety of certificates and certifications. When I discovered Family Dog Mediation, it was the missing puzzle piece I’d been searching for as an animal welfare professional. After completing the coursework, I went on to become a Licensed Family Dog Mediator (LFDM).

Family Dog Mediation uses a framework called LEGS. That stands for Learning, Environment, Genetics, and Self. Who your dog is depends on their LEGS. My goal when I work with clients is much more than teaching the dog how to do things. I want the person and pet to live well together. I look at the person-pet relationship as a partnership. That means I’m seeking to understand you and your dog to develop a plan that meets your and your dog’s needs. This is how we bring peace to your home and improve everyone’s quality of life. It includes teaching you skills so you can understand and work with your dog as well as teaching skills to your dog. But it’s more than issuing commands and expecting compliance. If you and your dog can communicate well, if you understand your dog’s LEGS, then you’ll have the foundation you need to meet your dog’s needs. If your dog’s needs are met, your dog is far more likely to comply with your requests. Check out my latest podcast for a deeper dive into LEGS.

Have you heard about Learning Dog Radio? Created for dog people who are curious about dogs!

Dogs are amazing. Even when they’re doing those “doggy” things that we humans find annoying, they are still amazing. Each episode looks at a “doggy thing,” like digging, to help dog people like you understand the dog in your life.

Why Does My Dog Do That?! Life in a Multi-species Home Explained

I published a book in 2024, “Why Does My Dog Do THAT?! Life in a Multi-Species Home Explained.” It provides insight and solutions for people living with dogs. A short, fun read that will help you understand the other species living in your home.

Delores Carter, CDBC, L-FDM, UW-AAB, KPA-CTP

Delores Carter

Delores Carter, CDBC, L-FDM, UW-AAB, KPA-CTP

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